What is appropriate? What do YOU do?

There's been a lot of discussions on various forums around just exactly what's it's ok for a coach to do. So rather than jump on a high horse (since I've marked a few boxes myself), I thought it would be really really interesting, to take an anonymous survey. I hope you spread the word - and be honest!

The questions below all apply to "player(s) I coach(ed)". Even if you've only done it once - that counts. Mark every single thing that applies. Please don't vote on what you THINK the role of the coach is.... I want to know what people are actually DOING. Just like Kinsey.

Which of the following have you, as a coach, done with players you coach?

Had a couple of drinks with club players Gotten drunk with club players Had a couple of drinks with college players Gotten drunk with college players Dated/hooked up with a club player Dated/hooked up with a college player Shared a hotel room with college players Shared a hotel room with club players Spent time at a club players house or had players at my house for purely social reasons Spent time at a collegiate players house or had players at my house for purely social reasons Smoked marijuana with a player (club or college) Borrowed money from a player Showed up unannounced at a players house Attended the social (college) Attended the social (club) I manage the team's checking account I do selections exclusively I physically participate in practice sessions I am responsible for the teams recruiting efforts I determine the goals and direction of the team I am responsible for getting the team sponsers I am responsible for the match schedule Most of my friends are on the team I coach Some of my friends are on the team I coach Just a couple of my friends are on the team I coach I am not friends with any of the players I coach None of the above apply to me. I am a frigging saint.